So I hung out with some friends downtown yesterday since Valentine's Day for me this year is Single's Awareness Day, or SAD for short. Now don't get me wrong I was far from being sad, as I enjoyed a great evening with my friends (females of course). Had a great time talking shit, laughing, and just enjoying bullshitting with each other while getting drunk off of sangria at La Tasca at the Inner Harbor.
I did notice one thing though this year; the people that were actually "coupled" up seemed pretty miserable.
After parking in a garage that was a flat rate of $20 for parking, (which made me decide to stay longer and get drunk for a while longer than I intended to) my brother and I were walking over to La Tasca and you could tell which couples were generally happy to be with each other and which one's were not. I would estimate that it was 70 - 30 in favor of being miserable. Without hearing anything and just looking at their faces it was very apparent what was going on in their minds.
The main people who were not happy were couples with a skinny guy and an obese woman. It was so obvious that the men were cringing having to take their big ass girl out in public and having to hold her hand and his significant other was not happy because she knew this. These same men were also checking out other women who most of society would deem as attractive.
The other couple's who seemed to be unhappy were those that you could tell made big expensive plans for the evening. Mostly from what I heard, it was the male who made the plans and was spending a lot of money for this Hallmark Holiday when they would rather just hang out somewhere and have sex all night long.
My brother was sitting next to this couple at La Tasca that annoyed the shit out of him. Each time he would turn around one person in the couple would talk trash about their "loved one" after the other left to go to the bathroom. He didn't understand why they were together when they obviously hated each other. I told him that the sex was good for him and she was getting her needs taken care of aka he paid for everything all of the time. They were drunk too, so I hope that when they made it home that he didn't Chris Brown the woman that he truly hated so much.
I am sure that there were people out in town that had a great evening with each other, which hopefully ended up with them having great sex when they got home. I just think from what I observed that it was few and far between, and now that I think about it Valentine's Day is more dangerous for people in relationships than it is for single people. I just think that there is a lot of stress involved in planning activities for the one day that you are supposed to show that you love someone, and that the stress and the expense gets to people and that people don't have as good of a time as they should. I just think that people should tell their loved one that they love them everyday and not get caught up in the commercialism of this one day.
Anyways, I hope that you enjoyed yesterday whether or not you are in a relationship.